Celebrated Nollywood actress and mother of one, Genevieve Nnaji, has
revealed why she is still single. I do love her sincere and well phrased answers.
She explained that her fear of divorce and her desire to stay
married for long were responsible for her decision to be single for now.
In an interview with an online news portal, Naijagist.com, recently,
Genevieve, who turned 35 on May 3, said she is afraid of being divorced shortly
after taking the marital vow.
“For me, before I choose a partner, I have to ask myself if this is
the kind of person I would be willing to forgive, no matter what when the time
comes. If the answer is no, then that person is wrong for me. That person is not
the person you want to get married to.
“If you know you can look into someone’s eyes and say yes, this is
the most you can do to me. If you actually cheat on me the first time, I can
find it in my heart to forgive you. If you can answer that question honestly and
truthfully to yourself, then you will know if that person is your partner or
not.
“I’m born Catholic, I’m raised Catholic, I don’t believe in divorce.
If I get married, I really want to stay married and staying married is not an
easy thing. It means you are completely in tune with your partner. It means you
have found your soul mate because you will have to be able to stand a lot of
disappointments that would definitely come but then again you have to learn to
forgive.
“As for marriage, it’s every woman’s dream to get married. We can’t
lie to ourselves. I do want to get married but over time I have had
opportunities to get married but I realise getting married is not actually the
problem. The problem is finding somebody you are compatible with.
“So compatibilty is the word, aside from the physical attributes
that have to go with it. I need to be comfortable because I am a woman and I’m
used to certain lifestyle,” the screen diva stated in the interview.
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